#Relationships #lettingGo #FoodForThought #ICan #IWill
Sometimes it’s better to just let things be, let people go,
'don’t' fight for closure, 'don’t' ask for explanations, 'don’t' chase answers
and 'don’t' expect people to understand where you’re coming from.
I happened to receive this message today morning and it gave
me chills!!
Arey...this was exactly the thought process when the year
begun.
2018 showed lot of ups and downs in relations.... Made some
beautiful close relations and some really close ones choose to part; with no rhyme
or reason.
December went in figuring out what, why and how that
happened.
And then, something came to my mind and I realized that it's
no worth spending time, thinking on why's, what's and how's.
It's time to think whether you gave your hundred percent to
that relationship of yours, did you try to maintain it, did you try working on
it, were you there when that relation needed your time?
If your answers are yes to a majority of the above
questions, then its better to park the thoughts at a side or just let it go off
you.
It did not work because it was not destined to work!!!
Theory of Karma says every person comes in your life with a
reason.
Probably that reason was solved, and hence the relation sank,
he/she choose to walk out.
We, always think that closure is needed, but have you ever
thought that the closure would have already happened; probably you never realized!
Rethinking or asking for explanation just makes you dig the
grave deeper.
2019 has started for me with a very intense thought process.
Trying to figure out what gives you inner peace, work on
that and work on yourself. That might
help you realize that it's OK not to react to all things that happen with you or
around you; probably that's the first step to Healthy Living.
For me, 2019 started with some intense food for thought; how
has it started for you?
Let's talk.
Excellent blog and a very good way to start the New Year, no past baggage, a new chapter. We can't figure out a reason for everything so take it as it comes with no questions asked. We must however keep our focus on what we intend to achieve and not get distracted by everyday happenings. Also enjoy the journey while we focus on the destination. All the best for your targets of this year. Have a great time ahead.
ReplyDeleteThank you Col Sir
DeleteSo so wonderfully penned down Riddhi... exactly my situation... i m also contemplating whether to let go or give it one more try... mind says move on but the heart says... try one more time....
ReplyDeleteIf you have given your hundred percent, and still it isn't working out, guess it's time to listen to your mind
DeleteSo true Riddhi... but it's awefully painful.. letting go of that one person u love the most is not easy....
DeleteCoudnt agree more these are exactly the thoughts that go through our minds but never voice it or even after realizing the relationship is no longer there we try to make believe and try to stick on sometimes just letting everythig go is best dor inner peace and self growth
ReplyDeleteCan't agree more to it
DeleteVery well said .I suppose deep down we realise it but it takes efforts to implement.But if well implemented ,can lead to lots of self happiness .
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteAmazing!!! It really is all true. We are planning already planning for ourselves with our own thoughts in place, subconsciously!
ReplyDeleteThank you Sunita
DeleteAwesome
ReplyDeleteThanks Guruji
DeleteGood way to start...Life is learn relearn and unlearn...
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely
DeleteExcellent article and very well articulated!!
ReplyDeleteSukriya
DeleteNicely put up thoughts, agree to all
ReplyDelete2019 no sitting back for someone or something not worth to your soul....
Good luck to you!
DeleteJst loved it.
ReplyDeleteThis really pepped me up and gave affirmations to my thought process.
Thank you.
My pleasure
DeleteFantastic Read..Riddhi..Life is such ..one should enjoy each moment he or she is in..because I believe people end up in situations due to their own decisions..we have to learn to respect ourselves and our decisions to be happy and content.
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