Love Thyself FIRST

Time and again, I have got the feeling that no matter how or where or whichever way the world will grow, we women still wait for validation.

So, we had a team meet recently and when we all meet, we work on and we talk about everything under the sun.

As always, we were discussing and amidst the discussion, I happened to discuss the strengths of one of my team members as she was planning to start some new venture of hers. 

Almost immediately, my other team member said, “Riddhi, let me know my strengths too. "

And I totally went blank....

The lady who asked me this has a successful career and, in all probability, she is not seeking validation; but who knows, perhaps she is!

So, what comes to my mind is this, we women still wait for validation!!!

We still need somebody else to tell us that we look beautiful,  that we have good curves,  that we look sexy,  that our smile is good,  that we cook well,  that we are a good mother ( good🤔huh,  mother is mother,  what is good and bad in that) that we are smart while talking to other gender,  that we multitask good,  that we are confident and lot many more things.

So, my question is don't we realize on our own that what are our strengths and where and how do we need to work on our weakness.

Don't we realize how sexy we look; feeling sexy and feeling good about your body is our right. Whatever shapes and sizes we have, it’s ours!! Let's flaunt over our strengths.

And it's high time that we stop seeking external validation and we once and for all say - Haata savan Ki ghaata,  I am my own favorite.

I love myself 🤗🤗